Unfortunately, if she's bitching you out as a way of getting negative feelings out of her from work, this probably is the real her. People who cope that way just cope that way- but obviously you know her better than I do, and are better equipped to make that call. But if you have to KEEP "arguing with [her] over nothing" maybe she's just that kind of person :/
She’s a great person. I pick fights with her also, I can’t blame everything on her and I won’t put the blame on her. Even when her and I argue, no matter how pissed I am, she is still the only person I want to hear from.
Naturally, since she had a bad day at work clearly, she calls me and starts to bitch me out. Seriously, wtf?!? We aren’t even dating and we’re arguing like we’re fucking married! This is stupid and pointless! I hear all this talk from her about how she is sweet to other girls and shit, so am I not worthy of being sweet too, because I don’t fucking understand? Thank you for ruining my day!
Could you be in a long-distance relationship (different countries)? Or what are your views on this subject?
I could only do a long distance relationship if I knew I’d see the girl often, and that we were both committed to each other. As for different countries, no. I am back and forth between Kansas (where I live now), Colorado, Texas, and Georgia a lot, so I could only date girls from those areas since I’m there often.
I think that long distance relationships are hard, very hard, but I do think they have the benefit of when you actually get time with the person you’re with, you don’t take it for granted like you would if you could see them everyday. They can work, but they require work, just like every relationship.
I’m the girl who prefers one rose instead of a dozen. I’m the girl who would rather stay in on a friday night than go to a wild party with random strangers. I'm the girl who wouldn’t make you wait on her hand and foot, but would do anything to make you happy. I’m the girl who would enjoy having a movie night rather than going to some fancy restaurant. I’m the girl who would rather stay up all night sharing secrets than going out and getting drunk. I’m the girl who won’t make you hold her bags, but would rather hold your hand instead. I’m the girl who will love you more than anyone can possibly dream of. I’m the girl who would give the world to see you smile.
My dog is 10 years old, and he isn’t doing well. Even though my ex girlfriend and I aren’t friends, I text her yesterday to tell her what was going on. She is just as heartbroken and worried about him as I am.
It meant a lot to me this morning that she text me to see how my dog is doing. She grew an attachment to him. He always ran up to her and made sure that she pet him. There was one time when I was making us lunch in the kitchen, we ended up making out, and both of my dogs started barking, we stopped and they got between us because they wanted her attention. It was so funny, that we made out again and they did the same thing.
Last time he got sick, she came over before she had to be at work (which was only 20 minutes before her shift). I told her not to and to just go to work, but her being her, she came in through the garage, walked in my room (I was cuddled up to my body pillow watching a movie), took off her shoes, crawled into bed, and wrapped her arms around me. She didn’t say a word. She didn’t have too.
What means the most to me though is, she isn’t just worried about him, she’s also worried about me and how I’m doing. We may not be together anymore, and we may barely be in each others lives, but it’s moments like this that I can actually see that she really does care and that’s what means the world to me.
Syndie, if you read this, thank you. You are one of the best people I’ve ever met, the most incredible girl I ever got the privilege of dating, and even though we aren’t friends, I’m always here for you (and Hailey) no matter what until the day I die.